Writing about our Oprah experience last week circled me back to some decade-old questions I've been pondering regarding whether I'm egotistical and if so, what I should do about it.
Here's what I do know: I really like to be right. By this I mean, when I take a stance on something, I'm pretty much willing to shed blood in defense of how right I am at any given moment.
What I don't know is: does this mean I'm an egomaniac?
These ego questions tie into the Oprah thing because I keep asking myself: WHY did I want to go on Oprah? Was it REALLY to help people, as I said it was? [Yes.] Or was I seeking fame as a means of validation [yes, too], and if so, is it even POSSIBLE that I could STILL be sucking that badly at loving myself? [No.]
In the public restroom at our local Newport Creamery last night, I had a major epiphany regarding how ego relates to service. But I can't share my thoughts yet on why egos will save the world because first we need to make sure we're on the same page about what the heck an ego is.
Ergo, today's video:
In this V-Log, I explain:
- How my perception of the "ego" has evolved through years of therapy and self-development
- Why the popular idea that we need to "leggo" our egos is a crock of ships
- One key trick for becoming an "ego whisperer" by taming your wild ego so that it works FOR you; not AGAINST you.
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If you found today's video informative, please forward it to at least one person who might need to be reminded that having an ego is a good thing.
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On a scale of 1-10, how healthy would you rate your ego (with 10 being "very healthy" and 1 being "Kanye West")?
Do you have any thoughts about ego that you'd like to share with other readers?
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